[Discussion] can we stop arguing about lost money until somebody posts a number
can we stop arguing about lost money until somebody posts a number — that is what I am asking, and I have already read the wiki twice. Escalating faster than the schedule allows is the most frequently described regret on the site, and the mechanism is straightforward: tolerance is the limiting factor and it does not…
Is this the first time, or a pattern you can see now?
Is this the first time, or a pattern you can see now?
Disagreeing with the self-blame in this line. Some of it is luck and treating everything as a lesson is its own trap.
Careful with naming anybody. The board rule holds even here, and especially here.
Are you being harder on yourself than you would be on somebody else posting this?
Gently disagree with the self-blame. What you describe is a procedural gap, and the procedure was not written down anywhere for you to follow.
Agreed. The failures are the part that is missing from every other board, which is why this one matters.